I've started playing on your server last week, as I've been looking to switch from Texas Team Players to avoid all their complaining whenever you kill them. I've heard a lot about DA being a server with a group of admins who always abuse their power, but really I don't agree with that. In 30+ hours I've played here I only got kicked once, when 3 DA members jumped under my J10 and kicked me for FTK. As far as I see it, you pay for the server, you make the rules. People complaining about being kicked for vehicles are really out of place, this isn't customer service for BF2, it's a private server. Of course doing it consistently will hurt the server's population ( especially the good players ), but when some idiot who can't kill anything the entire round keeps taking the jet and the other team has good pilots destroying the ground, kicking him is only helpful imo.
One thing I wanted to comment on was the no attacking uncaps rule. I understand why you implement it, but sometimes it really slows down the game's pace. Usually when a team get caped out of everything, the game will just drag on for a long time with the winning team not being able to attack anymore and the losing team just sitting at their uncap because they pretty much gave up. Attacking the uncap when all other bases have been taken is something you should consider.